The Thais Gibson Podcast

6 Proven Ways to Rekindle the Spark with a Dismissive Avoidant Partner

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcastHow do you reconnect with a dismissive avoidant partner?If you've grown apart in your relationship or want to rekindle the spark after a breakup, it’s important to understand how dismissive avoidants connect and what makes them feel safe in relationships. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and co-host Mike DiZio break down six key strategies to help you rebuild closeness and strengthen emotional intimacy with a dismissive avoidant partner.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ How to meet a dismissive avoidant where they are without overstepping boundaries✔️ The power of acknowledgment and appreciation in rebuilding trust✔️ Why lightness, humor, and playfulness foster emotional safety✔️ How to create connection without pressure or emotional overwhelm✔️ The most meaningful ways to show support and selflessness in a relationship✔️ Signs that a dismissive avoidant is actually healing and opening upIf you've ever wondered, “How do I get my dismissive avoidant partner to engage more?”, this episode will give you practical steps to create a deeper connection—while maintaining your own needs and boundaries.Timestamps:00:00 - Intro02:01 - 1 — Meeting Them Where They Are14:27 - 14-Day Free Trial15:20 - 2 — Acknowledgment and Appreciation20:47 - 3 — Incorporate Lightness and Humor28:04 - 4 — Absence of Pressure35:43 - Rocket Money37:36 - 5 — Supportiveness41:03 - 6 — Selflessness47:09 - Signs of Healing50:40 - ConclusionMeet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being.Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast🎙️ More Podcast Episodes:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1📝 Read More on Our Blog:https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchoolPodcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout.💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS'🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth!🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson,with a 30-day money-back guarantee!#attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #relationshipreconnection #relationshiptips #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoalsLove this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

THIS Is The Childhood of A Fearful Avoidant

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcastWhat was childhood really like for a fearful avoidant?Fearful avoidant attachment, also known as disorganized attachment, is deeply shaped by unpredictability, chaos, and a lack of emotional safety in early life. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we dive into the formative childhood experiences that create fearful avoidant attachment and explore why trust, stability, and emotional regulation feel so difficult in relationships.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The 3 major childhood factors that shape a fearful avoidant attachment style✔️ Why hypervigilance and emotional unpredictability become survival strategies✔️ How childhood instability, neglect, or parentification impact adult relationships✔️ The connection between trust issues, fear of abandonment, and emotional dysregulation✔️ A powerful reparenting exercise to start healing and shifting toward secure attachmentIf you’ve ever wondered “Why do I struggle to trust people?” or “Why do I push people away when I want connection?”, this episode will help you understand your past and take the first steps toward healing.Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being.Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast🎙️ More Podcast Episodes:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1📝 Read More on Our Blog:https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchoolPodcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout.💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS'🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth!🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson,with a 30-day money-back guarantee!#attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #childhoodtrauma #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #emotionalregulation #relationshipgoalsLove this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to Change Your Attachment Style: 5 Proven Ways to Heal & Grow

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcastCan you actually change your attachment style?The short answer: YES! Attachment styles are not set in stone—they’re learned patterns that can be rewired with the right tools. Whether you struggle with anxious, avoidant, or fearful avoidant tendencies, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast will show you how to reprogram your subconscious mind and create secure, fulfilling relationships.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ How attachment styles are formed in early childhood✔️ Why your subconscious mind keeps repeating old relationship patterns✔️ The top 5 strategies to shift from insecure to secure attachment✔️ How to heal emotional wounds and rebuild trust in relationships✔️ Why mindset shifts and daily habits can rewire your attachment styleIf you’ve ever felt trapped in unhealthy relationship cycles, this episode will give you actionable steps to start healing and create the love you deserve.Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being.Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast🎙️ More Podcast Episodes:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1📝 Read More on Our Blog:https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchoolPodcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout.💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS'🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth!#attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #relationshippatterns #datingadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals #findloveLove this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dismissive Avoidant or Narcissistic Personality Disorder? Understanding the Differences

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcastAre they a dismissive avoidant or a narcissist?Many people struggle to differentiate between dismissive avoidant attachment and narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) because both can involve emotional distance, self-protection, and difficulty with vulnerability. However, these are fundamentally different psychological profiles.In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we break down the key differences between a dismissive avoidant attachment style and narcissistic personality disorder, explaining how to recognize each and how to navigate relationships with them effectively.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The core traits of dismissive avoidant attachment vs. narcissistic personality disorder✔️ Why dismissive avoidants seem emotionally detached but aren't narcissists✔️ How narcissists manipulate vs. how dismissive avoidants withdraw✔️ The role of childhood experiences in shaping each personality type✔️ How to protect your emotional well-being in relationships with eitherIf you’ve ever asked yourself, “Is my partner emotionally distant or actually narcissistic?”, this episode will help you distinguish between the two and provide tools for healthier connections.Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being.Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast🎙️ More Podcast Episodes:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1📝 Read More on Our Blog:https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchoolPodcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout.💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS'🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth!#attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #relationshippatterns #datingadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals #findloveLove this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is Your Picker Broken? THIS Is Why You Choose the WRONG Person in Love

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcastDo you keep picking the wrong partners in love?If you’ve ever wondered why you’re drawn to emotionally unavailable people, partners who don’t commit, or relationships that don’t fulfill you, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast is for you.Thais walks you through an eye-opening exercise to uncover why you keep choosing the wrong people and what you can do to finally break the cycle and attract healthy love.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why your subconscious mind keeps choosing the same types of people✔️ How your past wounds and self-relationship mirror your dating patterns✔️ Why certain partners feel like “home” (even when they’re unhealthy)✔️ The 3-column exercise to identify patterns and start choosing better partners✔️ How to reprogram your subconscious and attract secure, emotionally available loveIf you’ve ever felt like your picker is broken, this episode will help you gain clarity, break toxic cycles, and finally find the fulfilling relationship you deserve.Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being.Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast🎙️ More Podcast Episodes:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1📝 Read More on Our Blog:https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchoolPodcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout.💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS'🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth!#attachmentstyles #relationshippatterns #datingadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #subconsciousmind #relationshipgoals #findloveLove this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Answering YOUR Questions About Dismissive & Fearful Avoidant Relationships!

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcastWhat is the hardest part of being fearful avoidant or dismissive avoidant?How do you know if your relationship can survive infidelity? Are you truly ready for marriage? How do you manage overwhelm? In this Q&A-style episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and co-host Mike DiZio answer your biggest relationship and personal growth questions, providing deep insights, real-life experiences, and actionable strategies.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The hardest struggles of fearful avoidant (FA) and dismissive avoidant (DA) attachment styles✔️ Why FA partners feel constantly dysregulated and how they can heal✔️ Why DA partners struggle with emotional expression & avoid conflict✔️ Can a relationship survive a major infidelity? The real steps to rebuilding trust✔️ Signs you’re actually ready for marriage—beyond just commitment✔️ How to handle overwhelm and burnout, plus expert strategies for emotional balanceIf you’ve ever struggled with attachment wounds, relationship uncertainty, or emotional exhaustion, this episode is filled with honest insights and powerful tools to help you move forward.Timestamps:00:00 - Intro01:27 - 1 — What is the Hardest Part About Being Fearful Avoidant?06:49 - 2 — What is the Hardest Part About Being Dismissive Avoidant?19:28 - 3 — Can a Relationship Survive a Major Infidelity?24:47 - 14-Day Free Trial26:07 - 3 — Can a Relationship Survive a Major Infidelity? (Cont’d)30:31 - Rocket Money32:25 - 4 — When is Someone Ready for Marriage?47:35 - 5 — What do You do When You are Feeling Very Overwhelmed?56:19 - ConclusionMeet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being.Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast🎙️ More Podcast Episodes:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1📝 Read More on Our Blog:https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchoolPodcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout.💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS'🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth!#attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #infidelityrecovery #marriageready #relationshipadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoalsLove this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dear Partner of a Fearful Avoidant: What Your FA Partner Wants You to Know!

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcastAre you in a relationship with a fearful avoidant partner?If your partner seems to pull you in one moment and push you away the next, you might be struggling to understand their behavior. Fearful avoidant attachment—sometimes called anxious-avoidant attachment—is one of the most misunderstood attachment styles.In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we explore what your fearful avoidant partner wishes you knew, how they experience relationships, and what you can do to create healthy, secure connection.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why fearful avoidants are hypervigilant in relationships✔️ Why they crave love but fear deep intimacy✔️ How past trauma shapes their trust issues and push-pull behavior✔️ What fearful avoidants truly need in a relationship✔️ How to communicate effectively and avoid emotional triggersIf you’ve ever felt confused, hurt, or unsure about your fearful avoidant partner’s actions, this episode is a must-listen!Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being.Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast🎙️ More Podcast Episodes:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1📝 Read More on Our Blog:https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchoolPodcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout.💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS'#attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #avoidantattachment #relationshippatterns #datingadvice #attachmenttheory #relationshipgoals #selfhealing #emotionalintimacy #findloveLove this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dating a Fearful Avoidant? What You Need to Know! | Fearful Avoidant Attachment

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcastAre you dating someone who pulls you in and then suddenly pushes you away?Fearful avoidant attachment, also known as anxious-avoidant, is one of the most complex and emotionally turbulent attachment styles. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we uncover what it’s like to date someone with a fearful avoidant attachment style, why they struggle with both intimacy and independence, and how to create a healthier relationship dynamic.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why fearful avoidants crave closeness but fear vulnerability✔️ The role of trauma and emotional chaos in shaping their attachment style✔️ Common triggers that cause them to shut down or push people away✔️ How to communicate effectively without triggering their fears✔️ Key strategies to build trust and emotional security in your relationshipIf you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why does my partner want closeness one moment and distance the next?”, this episode will give you deep insights into their behavior and practical tools to navigate these challenges.Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being.Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast🎙️ More Podcast Episodes:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1📝 Read More on Our Blog:https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchoolPodcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout.💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS'#attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #avoidantattachment #relationshippatterns #datingadvice #attachmenttheory #relationshipgoals #selfhealing #emotionalintimacy #findloveLove this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dear Anxious Attachments: Show This to Your Loved Ones to Feel Understood

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcastDo you feel misunderstood in your relationships?Anxious attachment styles often get labeled as "too needy" or "too much," but the truth is, they just want to feel secure, valued, and connected. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we break down the biggest myths about anxious attachment styles and what they really need from their loved ones.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The 5 biggest misconceptions about anxious attachment styles✔️ Why anxious attachers don’t need constant communication—just consistency✔️ How certainty and reassurance can transform an anxious attachment’s relationships✔️ Why they sometimes bring up past conflicts—and how to finally resolve them✔️ How partners can better support an anxious attacher’s needs without feeling overwhelmedIf you’ve ever felt misunderstood, invalidated, or unseen in your relationships, this episode will help you articulate your needs and build healthier, more fulfilling connections.Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being.Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast🎙️ More Podcast Episodes:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1📝 Read More on Our Blog:https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchoolPodcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout.💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS'🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth!#attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #relationshipneeds #relationshippatterns #datingadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoalsLove this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to Know if Someone is Dismissive Avoidant or Secure

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcastAre you dating someone secure—or dismissive avoidant?In the early stages of dating, dismissive avoidants can appear secure, making it tricky to recognize attachment patterns until real feelings are involved. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and co-host Mike DiZio break down key differences between secure and dismissive avoidant partners, including early red and green flags to look for in relationships.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ How dismissive avoidants can mimic secure traits early in dating✔️ The biggest communication differences between secure and DA partners✔️ Why dismissive avoidants avoid deep emotional conversations✔️ How to tell if someone is genuinely interested in a long-term relationship✔️ Signs that someone may struggle with emotional vulnerability and connectionIf you’ve ever wondered, “Are they actually secure, or will they pull away later?”, this episode will help you spot the differences and date with clarity.Timestamps:00:00 - Intro02:22 - 1 — DA’s Speak More Logically09:45 - 2 — Secure People Are Comfortable Saying What They're Looking For16:22 - 3 — Secure People Are Comfortable Talking About the Relationship25:26 - 4 — Secure People Will Want to Resolve Conflict in a Timely Fashion26:25 - 14-Day Free Trial26:53 - Secure People Will Want to Resolve Conflict in a Timely Fashion (Cont’d)31:52 - 5 — Secure's Can Laugh at Themselves34:39 - Rocket Money35:58 - 6 — DA’s May Have High Self-Consideration38:44 - 7 — DA's and Secure's Handle Adversities Differently41:56 - 8 — A Secure Person Will Introduce You to Family and Friends49:33 - 9 — Secure People Will Express Unmet Needs52:15 - ConclusionHelpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast🎙️ More Podcast Episodes:https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1📝 Read More on Our Blog:https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchoolPodcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout.💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS'🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth!#attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #secureattachment #datingadvice #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoalsLove this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices