The Thais Gibson Podcast

THIS Is Why Avoidants Prefer Casual Relationships Over Committed Ones!

Free Cyber Monday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/cyber-monday-14-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=cyber-monday&utm_content=mg-12-03-24&el=podcastAre you confused about why your partner keeps avoiding commitment? Learn the hidden fears driving dismissive avoidants and what you can do to create clarity and deeper connection in your relationships.In today’s episode, Thais Gibson delves into the psychology behind why dismissive avoidants prefer casual relationships over-committed ones. Learn how fears of vulnerability, emotional neglect, and subconscious conditioning contribute to their behavior, and discover actionable steps to navigate these dynamics effectively. Listen now to uncover how communication and self-awareness can transform your approach to relationships.Timestamps00:00:00 – Why Avoidants Prefer Casual Relationships00:00:33 – The Frustration of Feeling Stuck in Limbo00:01:01 – The Three Core Reasons Avoidants Avoid Commitment00:01:22 – Understanding the Dismissive Avoidant’s Fear of Vulnerability00:02:05 – Emotional Neglect and its Long-Term Impact on Attachment00:03:37 – How the Subconscious Mind Drives Avoidant Behaviors00:05:12 – Misconceptions About People-Pleasing in Relationships00:06:16 – Why Dismissive Avoidants Fear Feeling Trapped00:08:44 – The Role of Self-Sabotage in Avoidant Dynamics00:10:01 – Avoidants’ Search for Perfection to Avoid Conflict00:13:15 – How to Break the Cycle: Communication and Inner Work00:15:25 – Final Thoughts: Finding Closure and CertaintyLet’s connect!https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibsonhttps://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/#TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

THIS Is How A Fearful Avoidant Feels After A Break Up!

Free Cyber Monday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/cyber-monday-14-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=cyber-monday&utm_content=mg-12-01-24&el=podcastIn this insightful episode, Thais Gibson and Mike DiZio explore the inner world of the fearful avoidant attachment style during and after a breakup. Whether you're a fearful avoidant or someone trying to understand a partner with this attachment style, this episode sheds light on the complexities of their behavior and provides actionable strategies for healing and rebuilding trust in relationships.Timestamps00:00 - Intro02:13 - How Fearful Avoidants Process a Break Up08:02 - Reconnecting with an Ex10:40 - Expressing Needs and Vulnerability14:58 - Relief After a Break Up19:33 - 14-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass20:23 - After Breaking Up with an FA23:17 - On-Again, Off-Again Relationships28:02 - Love Languages and Expressing Needs37:36 - Mike and Thais’ Shares on Love Language Needs37:36 - Translate Expectations to Needs47:01 - When to Reconnect with an FA Ex51:00 - How Long Does the Reconnection Last?52:43 - How They Seem VS How They Feel54:53 - ConclusionLet’s connect!https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibsonhttps://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/#TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

THIS Is Why Avoidants Seem Fine After A Break Up

Free Cyber Monday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/cyber-monday-14-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=cyber-monday&utm_content=mg-12-01-24&el=podcastIn this episode, we dive deep into the dismissive avoidant attachment style and uncover why they often seem cold and unaffected after a breakup. Hosts Thais Gibson and Mike DiZio share personal insights, real-life examples, and professional expertise on attachment styles, discussing the intricate dynamics behind dismissive avoidance post-breakup behavior. Learn about the emotional boomerang effect, the role of subconscious conditioning, and how different attachment styles cope with breakups.They also explore key strategies for healing, whether you’re navigating a breakup or working toward secure attachment. If you’ve ever felt confused or hurt by a dismissive avoidant partner’s behavior—or wondered how to move on effectively—this episode provides both clarity and actionable tools.Listen now for a compassionate, insightful conversation that sheds light on attachment styles, personal growth, and the path to fulfilling relationships.Timestamps00:00 - Intro01:35 - Going through a Break Up (Mike)04:33 - The Break Up Boomerang Effect20:48 - 14-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass21:39 - How DAs Feel After a Break Up Over Time38:05 - Opening Up and Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone41:24 - Making Deeper Connections45:24 - Why DAs Don't Appear to Struggle After a Break Up51:28 - If You're on the Receiving End55:28 - Conclusion Let’s connect!https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibsonhttps://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/#TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do THESE Things to Heal Anxiety in Relationships!

Discover the keys to overcoming pain, apply post-traumatic growth principles, and reprogram your subconscious with the "How to Heal From a Breakup" course. Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-25-24&el=podcastIn this episode, hosts Thais Gibson and Mike DiZio explore the journey of healing an anxious attachment style.They break down six crucial pillars of transformation, including self-soothing, meeting your own needs, regulating the nervous system, and fostering healthy communication and boundaries.Packed with tangible tools and relatable analogies, this deep dive empowers listeners to move from anxiety to secure attachment.Whether you’re navigating relationships, self-growth, or emotional balance, this episode offers actionable strategies to rewrite your subconscious patterns and embrace meaningful connections.Timestamps:00:00 - Intro01:59 - 6 Pillars to Become Secure04:21 - Healing Anxious Attachment: Spend Time With Yourself13:33 - Self-Soothing Techniques (Mike)19:39 - Self-Soothing Techniques (Thais)25:54 - Putting Others on Pedestals30:22 - AquaTru32:37 - 6 Human Needs41:59 - Opening Up About Needs & Imbalances43:10 - Reactive Communication49:13 - When You Have an Unmet Need57:58 - Conclusion Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout.Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike:https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/Let’s connect!https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibsonhttps://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/Find Mike Online:https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee#TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

These Things Reveal if an Avoidant is Healing

Discover the keys to overcoming pain, apply post-traumatic growth principles, and reprogram your subconscious with the "How to Heal From a Breakup" course. Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-11-23-24&el=podcastBecome a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-11-23-24&el=podcastIn this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and her co-host, Mike Di Zio dive into the healing journey of avoidant attachment styles, focusing on how to recognize if a dismissive or fearful avoidant is making progress in their emotional growth.Join Thais and Mike as they break down the key signs of healing, such as the avoidant's gradual reconnection with their emotions and body. They discuss practical tools and strategies for avoidants, like journaling, meditation, and mindfulness practices, to help them process suppressed feelings and reduce their instinct to avoid vulnerability. The episode also explores the common misconception that avoidants are emotionless, revealing how they often numb themselves rather than confront their inner experiences.The hosts share personal stories and provide real-life examples, including a powerful analogy comparing emotions to a "check engine light," signaling unmet needs. They offer insights on how avoidants can begin to recognize these signals and respond with self-care rather than avoidance. The conversation highlights the importance of routines, physical activity, and reducing technology use to help avoidants stay grounded and connected with their emotions.Listeners will gain actionable advice on how to support a partner with avoidant tendencies, including how to create a safe space for open communication and ways to encourage vulnerability without pressure. This episode is essential for anyone looking to better understand avoidant attachment patterns and support loved ones on their path to healing.Timestamps:00:00:00 – Introduction: Healing Dismissive Avoidant Attachment00:01:00 – Why Discomfort Leads to Growth00:02:15 – Core Wounds and Rewiring Negative Beliefs00:04:00 – Meditation and Emotional Awareness00:06:00 – Emotional Feedback and Recognizing Needs00:08:30 – Self-Soothing vs. Self-Numbing Explained00:11:00 – Setting Boundaries: Survival vs. Nuanced Approaches00:13:15 – The Six Pillars of Secure Attachment00:15:30 – How to Rewire Negative Patterns Through Practice00:18:00 – Communicating Needs Effectively in Relationships00:20:15 – Building Emotional Resilience and Vulnerability00:23:00 – Key Triggers for Dismissive Avoidants in Relationships00:26:00 – Importance of Emotional Safety and Trust00:29:30 – Understanding Loneliness and Quality Connections00:33:00 – Rewiring Beliefs About Independence and Dependence00:36:30 – Responding to Feedback Without Defensive Behaviors00:40:00 – Shifting from Avoidant to Secure Attachment Dynamics00:45:00 – Developing Deeper Emotional Awareness Over Time00:50:00 – Practical Tools for Breaking Avoidant Patterns00:55:00 – Final Steps for Healing and Building Secure RelationshipsGet Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike:https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/Let’s connect!https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibsonhttps://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/Find Mike Online:https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee#TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

THIS IS Why You Keep Attracting Avoidant People

Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-21-24&el=podcastBecome a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-21-24&el=podcastAre you stuck in a cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable or avoidant partners?In this insightful episode, Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, dives deep into the subconscious patterns that draw us to these dynamics. Learn the three critical reasons behind this pattern and discover actionable steps to break free and create meaningful, fulfilling relationships.Thais combines her expertise in attachment theory, the subconscious mind, and neuroplasticity to uncover the hidden comfort zones that shape our connections. She also shares a transformative exercise to help you rewire these patterns and shift your attraction to healthier dynamics.Whether you're seeking emotional closeness, clarity in your standards, or better boundary-setting strategies, this episode offers valuable tools and fresh perspectives. Tune in to start your journey toward lasting connection and personal growth.Subscribe, rate, and share to support your personal development journey!Let’s connect!https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibsonhttps://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/#TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

THIS Is How a Secure Person Reacts to an Avoidant Having a Phantom Ex

Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-19-24&el=podcastBecome a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-19-24&el=podcast"THIS Is How a Secure Person Responds to Someone Having a Phantom Ex!" is your guide to navigating the tricky dynamics of dating someone who can't seem to let go of their past.Hosted by Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, this episode dives deep into the strategies securely attached individuals use to address challenges when their partner frequently brings up an ex.Learn how to openly communicate, address unmet needs, and set healthy boundaries while staying true to your values. Discover tools to foster emotional availability, improve relationships, and maintain self-respect.Whether you're building a connection or navigating complex dynamics, this podcast equips you with insights for a healthier, more secure approach to relationships.Subscribe, rate, and share to transform your subconscious patterns and empower your personal growth journey!Let’s connect!https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibsonhttps://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/#TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Foundations of Longevity: Sleep, Nutrition, and Wellness Strategies with Nathalie Niddam

Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-11-16-24&el=podcastIn this episode, we dive into the key elements of promoting longevity and a better quality of life.Our guest, Nathalie Niddam, a holistic nutritionist and wellness advocate, discusses the foundational pillars of health—sleep, nutrition, movement, and stress management.Learn actionable strategies for improving sleep hygiene, incorporating whole foods, and building sustainable habits that support physical and mental well-being.Discover how small, intentional changes today can lead to long-term vitality and joy.Perfect for anyone seeking realistic and impactful health tips.Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro01:09 - Nathalie Niddam’s Backstory06:52 - Getting Started on Longevity10:36 - Inflammaging16:11 - 14-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 17:02 - Pillar 1: Sleep24:34 - Individuation27:01 - Pillar 2: Nutrition36:35 - Measuring What Does and Doesn't Work40:14 - Where to Start42:59 - Pillar 3: Exercise & Movement46:39 - Pillar 4: Managing Stress50:58 - Find More Nathalie Niddam Content51:38 - Conclusion Find Nathalie Online:Website: https://www.natniddam.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nathalieniddamFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/nathalie.niddam/Let’s connect!https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibsonhttps://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/#TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This Is How a Secure Person Reacts to an Avoidant Flaw-Finding in Relationships

Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcastBecome a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcastWhen a partner starts focusing on flaws and pulling away, it can feel confusing and hurtful.In this episode, Thais Gibson explores how a securely attached person would handle an avoidant partner’s flaw-finding behavior.Learn the key steps—like not personalizing criticism, addressing the pattern directly, and maintaining healthy boundaries—that foster open communication and prevent misunderstandings.Thais also shares strategies to build secure attachment and resilience in relationships.Let’s connect!https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibsonhttps://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/#TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

THIS Is How To Heal Fearful Avoidant Triggers FAST & Improve Relationships

Free Black Friday Trial: 14 Days of All-Access to personal growth & relationship courses!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcastBecome a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-11-12-24&el=podcastAre you feeling the ups and downs of a relationship that seems like an emotional rollercoaster?In this episode, Thais Gibson, founder of the Personal Development School, dives into the root of this instability by exploring the fearful avoidant attachment style and its common triggers.Learn how unresolved core wounds, like fear of betrayal or rejection, resurface in relationships, creating intense, often overwhelming emotions.Thais shares actionable steps for rewiring these subconscious patterns to foster secure, healthy attachments. Tune in to discover transformative exercises that help you break free from the cycle of fear and instability, leading to more fulfilling relationships and inner peace.Let’s connect!https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibsonhttps://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/#TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices